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   Adrianna Tan (skinnylatte@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 09-Dec-2024 08:24:02 JST Adrianna Tan

   The Vietnamese auntie at the farmers market asked me how long my wife and I have been together, and whether she’s my first love. I said no

   She started cackling and said, FIRST LOVE ALWAYS TRAGEDY

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     Adrianna Tan (skinnylatte@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 09-Dec-2024 08:25:56 JST Adrianna Tan

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     Then she gave me a free ‘Serrano pepper to keep things spicy’

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     Adrianna Tan (skinnylatte@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 09-Dec-2024 09:34:51 JST Adrianna Tan

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     Before I moved to San Francisco, I avoided talking to old Asian people because I was afraid of their judgement (of my queerness). I thought it was a good life hack that helped me also avoid the nosy elders.

     Now that I’m here, there are lots of nosy Asian elders who also want to know every detail about your queer partner!

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     mustardsauce (mustardsauce@kopiti.am)'s status on Monday, 09-Dec-2024 14:21:16 JST mustardsauce

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     @skinnylatte i don’t think i will ever be comfortable with this. This is a reality outside of my imagination lol

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     Adrianna Tan (skinnylatte@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 09-Dec-2024 14:21:16 JST Adrianna Tan

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     • mustardsauce

     @mustardsauce yah the Chinese massage auntie was like who your boyfriend husband and I said donch have and she said who your girlfriend wife