Took a while, but I finally got my artist account merged with my Music Topic on Youtube
https://www.youtube.com/@shehackedyou
I can now post my own music for my own videos, with my music and not get flagged. Additionally now all my music is on a single account on Youtube (I had an account just for the music, which had its own set of subscribers and everything)
If you listen to music that way 😕