I'm pretty happy with the number of disbelieving gasps I've gotten in my life from fashy, white, male relatives, acquaintances, and strangers, all for my loudly and publicly kneecapping them for their racist or misogynist bullshit.
I don't plan to lower my standards for other's conduct, so say bullshit in mixed company around me and be prepared to get publicly humiliated. I'm good at it; I have lots of practice.
Bonus: I've actually punched a nazi in the face, so don't test me. 😁