I used to have pretty individualistic values, and that is the main cause of issues with a relationship I had.
With a lot of individualism, loneliness I moved forward in life.
There is more people oriented toward self realization, and other people oriented toward belonging.
Both are like the difference between the Moon and the Sun.
Here I include a scientific study made in Mexico that questions the traditional Maslow priorities.
https://revistas.um.es/analesps/article/view/511101/366441