One thing that's becoming obvious out of the current situation is how wrong the idea is that what motives us is personal gain. That might seem a bit weird, but bear with me.
One of the things that feels so hard about what's happened in my country is that I feel rejected. Not valued. Like all of the stuff I do and care about is worthless to most of my fellow citizens.
This is a painful feeling, but it helps to see it. It's not just my peeps that feel this.