Conversation

Something is very wrong with our society, besides the politicians, that is...
Cleaning out our closet I found two pair of like brand new jeans too small for me so I offered them to another resident in the building. Later I saw her and asked if the fit was alright.
She said, "Why? Do you want them back?"
ME: "No. Once I give something away I never ask for it to be returned. It's out of my life and what you do with it is no longer my concern"
Her: What can I give you in return because these are like new"
ME: "Nothing. If I give you something or do something to help, I never expect anything in return"
She seemed a little upset and insisted so I explained my philosophy:
"Look, if you ever see someone in need and there is some little way you can help, please do it, and that will be how you can pay me back-deal?"
I have run into so many people who have nothing or very little who feel it is necessary to offer money or goods in exchange for a minor helpful action and that makes me sad especially when they say, "Well everyone expects to be paid, why should you be different?"
That's when I say "Something is very wrong with our society...besides the politicians"
Please note: The same goes for anyone who gives and expects the receiver of the gift to then change their behaviour, it is not right to put expectations on people just because you are helping. Just help, and know you did right.
Thanks for listening to my rant.