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   𝐿𝒶𝓃𝒶 "not yet begun to fight" (lana@beige.party)'s status on Monday, 11-Nov-2024 04:10:09 JST 𝐿𝒶𝓃𝒶 "not yet begun to fight"

   Scripts for cishet white men who want to be better allies:

   - Bro that's really fucked up
   - Don't say shit like that around me
   - I won't let you talk about them that way
   - That's a disgusting opinion to have
   - Say that again around me and we're going to have a problem
   - Shut the fuck up dude

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     Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 11-Nov-2024 04:10:17 JST Paul Cantrell

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     @Lana
     (The first one is especially good)

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     Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Nov-2024 01:20:40 JST Paul Cantrell

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     • Hugs4friends ♾🇺🇦 🇵🇸😷
     • Don Whiteside
     • schtschur 🍉 2 by 2 and back again

     @Tooden @rad @donw @Lana
     I’ve personally found that to be extremely •ineffective•, but you may have a way of pulling it off that actually works, I guess.

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     Hugs4friends ♾🇺🇦 🇵🇸😷 (tooden@aus.social)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Nov-2024 01:20:41 JST Hugs4friends ♾🇺🇦 🇵🇸😷

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     • Paul Cantrell
     • Don Whiteside
     • schtschur 🍉 2 by 2 and back again

     @rad OH uses silence. The 'I'm going to pretend I didn't hear that' type of silence. It is effective. @donw @Lana @inthehands

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     schtschur 🍉 2 by 2 and back again (rad@todon.eu)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Nov-2024 01:20:42 JST schtschur 🍉 2 by 2 and back again

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     • Paul Cantrell
     • Don Whiteside

     @donw

     Tried it a lot. Works wonders. It usually resulted in confusion, which really undermines their confidence.

     @Lana @inthehands

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     Don Whiteside (donw@mastodon.coffee)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Nov-2024 01:20:43 JST Don Whiteside

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     • Paul Cantrell

     @Lana @inthehands Or a plain and simple “ew.”

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     Hugs4friends ♾🇺🇦 🇵🇸😷 (tooden@aus.social)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Nov-2024 09:32:49 JST Hugs4friends ♾🇺🇦 🇵🇸😷

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     • Paul Cantrell
     • Don Whiteside
     • schtschur 🍉 2 by 2 and back again

     @inthehands He has. @rad @donw @Lana

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     Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Nov-2024 09:32:49 JST Paul Cantrell

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     • Hugs4friends ♾🇺🇦 🇵🇸😷

     @Tooden
     Oops, him, not you! Sorry, totally missed the “OH” part. Regardless, if it works, then more power!