If your husband voted Republican, he is not your partner or friend. He considers himself your owner.
Divorce him while you can. Get away. Do what you can. He has shown he will not defend you or have your back. He is a risk to your safety.
Every Republican voter is a rape apologist and hates women (and everyone else not white cishetero male) including you ACTIVELY.
DV is going to rise under Trump.
As is rape.