@coolboymew@sapphire >the retired couple have struggled to make friends and are becoming increasingly frustrated with French bureaucracy. >“We gave it a year here,” says Joanna. “And we just said, ‘Too much grief and no joy.’ There’s no fun. We’re struggling every day.” You don't need to not speak the language for that, it's the default here.
@sapphire@shortstacksran.ch so America has problems but her life was amazing here, just has political issues, then France is "an amazing country" when she couldn't even find the groceries she is used to :despair:
@coolboymew@sapphire >You pick up a piece of celery and it falls over. It’s so limp. So old and so horrible. Who would eat this? People who are depending on food charities <-
@coolboymew@sapphire > “You have to find a general practitioner who will take you on as a patient,” says Joanna. “Well, we went to like six doctors. (They all said) ‘We don’t take new patients… ‘We don’t take new patients. We don’t take new patients.’ Yes that's normal, the system is crumbling because of the bankers. And private sector doesn't develop because very few can afford them.
> “I think every married couple needs two places to live, because you’ve got to get away from each other,” adds Joanna, who previously worked as a healthcare executive. > “I’m a pretty political person, and I feel like the United States should be better,” she says. “And it never gets better.” > Before leaving the US, the couple made the decision to hold onto their rent-controlled apartment, which Joanna had lived in for over 40 years, in San Francisco, just in case things didn’t go to plan.
@lain@coolboymew@sapphire It makes me laugh, the good thing about being an expat in my own official country and working/moving all around is that I learned that the neighbors grass always looks greener but isn't. It's unfortunate for them to not have found happiness here tho.
@coolboymew@lain@mangeurdenuage at least they kept their rent controlled $600 a month apartment in SF so they can experience zero consequence for their 3 year vacation
@coolboymew@sapphire@lain > She also found that much of the socializing in Nîmes seemed to revolve around eating. That's pretty much most of France aside Paris. No banquet, no Friends.
@coolboymew@lain@sapphire >Joanna and Ed prefer life in Montpellier > “I wish more people would show the not-so-pleasant side of France,” she says. “Because there is a not-so-pleasant side of France, and that’s what we learned very quickly.” :Topkek:
@lain@coolboymew@mangeurdenuage Only thing I agreed with, French food is severely overrated now that literally any other culture got their restaurant management skill