I really liked this article, accessible to non-computer-nerds, that talks about learning to use tools in our daily life, and how computers are treated differently
The User Is On Their Own
https://www.selfawaresoup.com/notes/2024/05/01/the-user-is-on-their-own/
Whenever the design of user interfaces comes up, one quality is almost always mentioned: it should be intuitive. What does “intuitive” mean here? Easy to learn from the ground up? Difficult to make mistakes with? Simple? Maybe any combination of these and more. […] Now, given these definitions, what things in life are intuitive? I believe the answer is: almost none.