«There is something about aces that immediately makes people question us, as if we just can’t be real. Disclosure of this identity and discussion of our relationships brings immediate issues with our legitimacy. Other identities make sense and we are the flawed ones that can be changed, if only we put in the effort.»
https://asexualagenda.wordpress.com/2024/10/22/the-myth-of-the-right-person/