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   Cum Vampire (divinekestrel@chaosfem.tw)'s status on Wednesday, 16-Oct-2024 00:25:55 JST Cum Vampire

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   See, here's the thing… most of the Trans girls I meet IRL have done a lot of processing and emotional evaluation about one thing.

   I'm sorry, but a lot of y'all are like "I'm a girl now so I'm done and everything great and I can do whatever I want because girl power" and then stop there, and don't go any fucking further into deconstructing your place in the world.

   And, y'all, I just can't with that shit. It drives me up the fucking wall. Because I spend a lot of time in a white patriarchal colonialist world that it's really hard to have people be like "We're both Trans so naturally you fit the box I created now!"

   I have had more than one person tell me that my being trans was great because I don't have to think about being Black anymore.

   Bitch you need to walk the fuck away.

   This… is very rare among cis lesbians I know. Why… because…

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     Cum Vampire (divinekestrel@chaosfem.tw)'s status on Wednesday, 16-Oct-2024 00:25:59 JST Cum Vampire

     • Doc Impossible

     There've been some posts recently about Trans femmes not fitting in with lesbians because of an unshared history and, while I get it, I feel so differently. Opposite, in fact. Like, I feel way more comfortable and aligned with the lesbians I know than with most Trans women. I've been trying to find a way to describe why and couldn't.

     Then @Impossible_PhD wrote the best thread holy shit! and, yeah, that's the context…

     https://hachyderm.io/@Impossible_PhD/113311857718080015

     carl marks repeated this.