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    veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 09:21:40 JST veff :trash: veff :trash:
    • philmchawk
    • LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
    • Dudebro
    • kuteboiCoder

    @LukeAlmighty @philmchawk @Dudebro @KuteboiCoder I don't find it too much a waste of time considering I've finished my weekend work and have nothing better to do. I find occasional utility in turning my thoughts into coherent paragraphs, though perhaps it would be better not to plaster each draft on my follower's timeline.

    Anyway going back to autism, it's frustrating because I think I have the reverse-autism autism when it comes to conversing. When people speak to me, I enjoy the search for meaning. There will always be a difference between what is said versus what is meant due to the limitations of language. That's why I learn many different languages. If I were to go to Brasil and then get mad when I didn't understand people, that'd be pretty damn foolish and would rightfully be my fault. Likewise, it'd be the same in English if I somehow didn't understand what someone was saying due to minor semantic anomalies, or word choice or pronunciation etc.

    In my life, I've had conversations with many autists both irl and online. In those conversations, I've had people get very upset and (from my perspective) refuse to understand my point because of quite inconsequential things like using affect rather than effect, or using a general term like airplane when it was acktually a Mi-24P Hind-F helicopter 🤓. These are the moments which make me realize most autistic people add nothing of value to my life. They claim intelligence and logic as a cope to hide their near universal thin-skin. Want to be respected? Become an idiot savant. Paint a giant mural, or invent a more efficient alternator or something. All that massive intellect doesn't amount to jack or shit unless you can back it up with something of value.

    In conversation about 8 months ago from poa.st permalink

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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 09:21:29 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder

      @veff @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder
      Thanks for the advice, but achievements lead nowhere. I used to be that kind of full dive autist for most of my life, but the rewards were so pathetic, that I just threw in the towel, and started focusing on the exact "problem" you were complaining in the very first post. How to benefit from the current shattering of society to form an actual social groups, that are not toxic to autists.

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 09:29:27 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      • Dudebro
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      @veff @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder
      And don't worry. I do understand your point of "missing empathy leading to us destroying the social cohesion as well as wasting resources and potential benefits that could be created if society wasn't split over these barely people"...

      I just don't like it. Especially, since all most autistic people need is a bit of understanding and a shared space that would help them form more insular communities.

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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:05:26 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      • Dudebro
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      @veff @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder
      Except I am not handicapped in any way. I literally don't see autism as a fault. It's more like throwing one French kid into an English classroom, and bullying him for not understanding, while not putting him into a french class to other kids, or at least providing english classes to him.

      It is a cruel behavior, but not because being French is a defect. Only, because He doesn't speak the same language.

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink

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      veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:05:27 JST veff :trash: veff :trash:
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      • philmchawk
      • LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder

      @LukeAlmighty @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder Imagine if there were thousands of physically handicapped people online who loudly complained that their friends never invited them to go swimming. Imagine if normal-bodied people got mad that they were never invited to participate in the Olympics. Imagine if the Latin-Americans got mad that all our US phone lines and grocery labels weren't in Span- oh. Scratch that last one.

      I make do with what I was born with, which is more than some but less than many others. I don't let it bother me enough to get mad at the world and want to watch it be destroyed. Usually.

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:10:52 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      @veff @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder
      Also, your example was also wrong on the part of intent. As should be obvious, I do not want to interact with NTs ever again in my life. Yet, I was forced to pay my time in their presence for more then half of my life.

      So, it's strange that you described it as us wanting to be invited.

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink

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      philmchawk (philmchawk@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:14:34 JST philmchawk philmchawk
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      • LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder
      @veff @LukeAlmighty @Dudebro @KuteboiCoder I should have said "you are wasting time talking past each other" instead of "wasting time" but that is what I meant.
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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:17:04 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder

      @philmchawk @Dudebro @veff @KuteboiCoder
      I am literally not talking about internet as a pleasure trap, but as a community forming tool. :pepeFacepalm:

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      philmchawk (philmchawk@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:17:05 JST philmchawk philmchawk
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      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder
      @LukeAlmighty @veff @Dudebro @KuteboiCoder Except we do understand you and know what you need. The problem is allowing normies access around you (IE phones/internet) not you existing in your bedroom and online. Autistic people need to get past their main character syndrome and realize when people talk about taking away the internet/phones they mean more for normies. The internet is the perfect neurodivergent pleasure trap, it should have been left like it was in the 90's instead of making it colorful for normies though, that was the problem.
      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:20:44 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder

      @veff @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder
      That is one insane definition of a handicap, but if you see it this way, then I completely get, that there is no way we can ever agree on this topic. :Asuka_Heart:

      Your view is beyond fashistic. It is more like a chain, where each individual part has to be strong and do its God given part.

      Have a nice day.

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:20:45 JST veff :trash: veff :trash:
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      • philmchawk
      • LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder
      @LukeAlmighty @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder >Everyone ELSE must accommodate my not-handicap.
      What was I saying about autistics being egocentric?

      I'm left handed. It's absolutely a handicap. I don't lie and pretend it's just a personality quirk or something, it's just how I was born. Good news? I learned how to write and use tools with my right hand. Am I as dexterous as everyone else? Not at all. But it's not their problem unless I decide to be whiny and complain about it constantly.
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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:22:55 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder

      @philmchawk @Dudebro @veff @KuteboiCoder
      How stupid are you?
      Do you setiously believe, that people on internet cannot ever meet in real life?

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      philmchawk (philmchawk@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:22:56 JST philmchawk philmchawk
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      • LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder
      @LukeAlmighty @Dudebro @veff @KuteboiCoder tomato tomato, the point is your prefer the internet to real life even if real life wasn't shit. If it was the 1960 with great communities and social interaction you would still want to be online.
      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:25:16 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
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      @veff @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder
      Good night.
      I am quite happy, I found the fundamental point on disagreement at least.

      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:25:19 JST veff :trash: veff :trash:
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      • philmchawk
      • LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿
      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder
      @LukeAlmighty @Dudebro @philmchawk @KuteboiCoder >Your view is beyond fashistic
      Where do you think you are???

      G'night to ya.
      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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      philmchawk (philmchawk@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 10:26:35 JST philmchawk philmchawk
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      • Dudebro
      • kuteboiCoder
      @LukeAlmighty @Dudebro @veff @KuteboiCoder huh must be level 2
      In conversation about 8 months ago permalink
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