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   Gorgeous Killer (are0h@h-i.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 01:14:07 JST Gorgeous Killer

   I can’t lie, it’s funny to me how people engage me in hostile bad faith trying to to tell me what my intentions are without knowing any details get UPSET when I label them as bigots.

   I’m not your teacher, your magical Negro friend or someone that is going to take random people’s shit that they only have the courage to say because they are anonymous cowards on the internet.

   If you come at me like a hateful lunatic, ha, I’m going to believe you.

   If you act like a hostile actor, that’s how you’re going to be treated.

   Only a bigot doesn’t understand this basic principle of human interaction.

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     ᔅᑕᕐᐗᓪ (starwall@wizzzard.online)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 01:14:03 JST ᔅᑕᕐᐗᓪ

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     @are0h The conduct of so called leftists on here is so embarrassing. Reading your take and then taking away that this is a person who has to be ostracized is something only internalized racism will do, and you're absolutely correct for calling that out for what it is. Especially when it just keeps happening!

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     Gorgeous Killer (are0h@h-i.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 01:14:05 JST Gorgeous Killer

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     It’s really not that hard to a civilized and curious person.

     If you want to know something, just ask. I’m an open book if one engages is good faith.

     Unfortunately what has happened over the last few days affirms my sentiment of how many people who proclaim to be leftists have the same methodology and engagement style of any common racist.

     Many people want to perceived as rational and thoughtful, but do not act thoughtfully or rationally when engaging with the complex experience of being Black and Brown on the fedi.

     And that’s a choice. That’s not just how people are. It’s a definitive decision to withhold the respect and empathy for people they deem unworthy while expecting that in return.

     And I am very specific with how I respond to people who engage in this type of biased behavior. And it’s not going to be with kid gloves.

     The premise is quite simple. If you don’t want to treated like a bigoted asshole, don’t act like. Easy.

     I don’t want to hear how your being treated unfairly because you decide to launch into a hateful rant targeting someone you don’t know and hasn’t engaged with you at all.

     carl marks repeated this.
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     Gorgeous Killer (are0h@h-i.social)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 01:14:06 JST Gorgeous Killer

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     What happened over the weekend is yet another example of even when I mind my business, people still come at me unprovoked.

     I have never interacted with any of the people that targeted me and virtually all of them freely admitted they do not know the details of the situation they are allegedly upset about.

     It’s surreal watching people I didn’t know existed until they stated harassing me accuse me of harassment and abuse without even knowing what they are talking about.

     I don’t call people like this bigots to be mean or spiteful.

     I call them bigots because that’s what their actions are screaming at me.

     It’s just an objective assessment based on the data they are offering.