I'm positive that spouse and I are in a minority when it comes to the general gun-owning population. In materials from a major insurance provider/owners organization, there's a big Christo-fascist vibe and us/them division. Everyone who doesn't own one is suspect. And training videos? Women are mostly absent unless they're asking big strong men for help.
And everyone is white.
EVERYONE.
There's another organization, though, with nearly no indoctrination vibe and better representation of non-White males and women.