As i see it, there can be a lot of value in just being a normal, in total obscurity, humble - it's more about being an "ANAL JERK", like Rev. Stang put it..
Be mediocre-- just be utterly and totally; SUPER-KIND...LIKE-- like a good way in being normal-- DON'T delve into gossiping or tragedy-media pushing out news of a negative matter - DON'T be negative, keep having an utter, total PMA.
Don't think, don't be anal and vicious - just grab your friend and love him, LOVE THY NEIGHBOR, LOVE IT ALL