If you conflate Fediverse software, you're making it confusing for people that are unknowledgeable on the subject.
Mastodon ≠ Pleroma ≠ Akkoma ≠ Misskey ≠ Sharkey ≠ GoToSocial.
Every Fedi software is developed by different people for the most part. Each dev has different values and ideologies which might show with the features of their software.
Everyone is different and so is the software they create.