btw my actual position is that attraction cannot be unethical, because it's something that happens inside your own head and not an action you take that affects other people, hope that helps.
Like, I chose that example for the original post because it's such a silly thing to argue about. HOWEVER. What's NOT silly is how bad people have gotten about censorship and generally policing other people's internal feelings.
I wasn't going to post this, because the post that prompted this was not about that.(This post: https://mastodon.online/@BathysphereHat/112872911305157629 ) But a lot of people crawled out of the woodwork to be the thought police, so here we are.
"It's unethical to have certain feelings" is not a leftist position, even if you dress it up in leftist clothes. It's an inherently regressive position.