When people see themselves as better than you, there are tells. For example, women not men get asked about their reproductive past, present and future in interviews than men. But to add complexity, when men are asked, they are paid more if they have children or a wife. Often its also racialized where women of color will be asked their age in interviews and on the job. People who do not have entitlements don't put #WOC in this position because they don't see themselves as better. #compassion