Can you look at your moment to moment and laugh with the cosmic humor of trying to make it happen faster? It can take a very long time, all that resistance to serious change. We get used to thinking of how it should be, what is expected. It can be the hardest thing to accept, smile, smell the ambient air, taste the moment, and enjoy the dance. Just, you know, bit by bit, easing the attention from some goal or guilt to simply feeling into a gentler frame.