@AnarchoNinaWrites
Please, please give them only public facing and somewhat detached information, and remember that what you say is almost certainly subject to US search warrants if anything were to happen, so just bet cautious in any specifics and information, if you have any reason to be.
There are end to end encrypted solutions and other mechanisms if you want to share highly private info, such as penis sizes or similar. Some things are not the business of strangers.