My "father" failed me and was only ready to accept me on his terms.
I did not have the privilege to have a father in this life. He had one job that no one forced him to do, starting with me if he does not want to he can just go to hell.
So if you have a dad who would do anything for you, who is here for you and can guide you through life. That man is a blessing and make sure to not be too hard on him.
No one is perfect.