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   Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 11:59:39 JST Special Guest Star

   • Barbecued_Lemons
   @Barbecued_Lemons
   
   What do you think? Like their profile and see if you match! https://bum.bb/u/VPTpf4w17eA
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:04:02 JST Special Guest Star

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     hahaha you can get back on with a new email
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     Barbecued_Lemons (barbecued_lemons@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:04:03 JST Barbecued_Lemons

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     @s2208 I'm pretty sure I got banned from bumble like the first year it was out for setting all my settings ti retarded, like I was a 3 foot jewish conservatice who supported xyz, aka I larped for a week as a regular jew
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     Barbecued_Lemons (barbecued_lemons@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:05:35 JST Barbecued_Lemons

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     @s2208 do I not need a phone number?
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:05:35 JST Special Guest Star

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     get a google voice number. it’s as good as a real number for that stuff
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:09:50 JST Special Guest Star

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     i hear about people getting no matches. there’s gotta be something wrong with how you’re doing the profile.
     
     I’m a 6 maybe on a good day and I get a ton of matches - even some with beautiful young women
     
     marketing I guess
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     Barbecued_Lemons (barbecued_lemons@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:09:51 JST Barbecued_Lemons

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     @s2208 I've tried dating apps before, I never got any matches. I think it's better for my non existent self esteem to avoid them
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     Barbecued_Lemons (barbecued_lemons@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:13:25 JST Barbecued_Lemons

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     @s2208 maybe I have nothing to show off and no friends so :shrug_yui:
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:13:25 JST Special Guest Star

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     onenof the things that helped me tremendously when I was first single was I went to singles events and took pictures that looked like I was having fun with people.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:19:32 JST Special Guest Star

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     being over 29 makes Tinder difficult.
     
     The lifetime subscriptions are bad because although they are cost-effective, you get the most attention from the algo when you are a new account.
     
     I’ve taken to deleting my accounts every couple of months so I can always be “new”
     
     being 5’5” is a hard one to overcome. women are so status conscious and physiognomy is real.
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     Red (redneonglow@bae.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:19:33 JST Red

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     @s2208 @Barbecued_Lemons
     
     I used to get a few monthly matches years ago, but wound up cancelling my subscription to Tinder because I stopped getting matches. I'm wondering if it's because I'm almost 40 now and might be automatically filtered out based on age.
     
     Or it could be because I entered my height into Tinder and that is being filtered out. Women kept asking me my height (5'5) and telling me I was too short, so I filled in my height in hopes of getting matches who didn't care, so I wound up getting no matches at all. That's possible too.
     
     Except that I have a lifetime subscription to Bumble but still get no matches, even though my height was filled in on Bumble back when I did get matches :ablobsigh:
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:22:02 JST Special Guest Star

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     On the apps, being under 6’ tall is worse for a man than obesity is for a woman
     
     Almost all women filter out men below a certain height, and women who routinely get a lot of matches will filter everyone below 6’ at least
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     DMA (dma@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:22:03 JST DMA

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     @s2208 @redneonglow @Barbecued_Lemons we can see eye to eye.
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     Barbecued_Lemons (barbecued_lemons@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:22:19 JST Barbecued_Lemons

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     @s2208 @redneonglow I'm barely missing out on 6'3 cause I had to have months of organ failures in middle school and miss all my growth spurts. It sucks being the shortest one by far in the family :sob2:
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:22:19 JST Special Guest Star

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     your height should get you matches.
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     WilhelmIII (wilhelmiii@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:25:20 JST WilhelmIII

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     So just lie.
     
     All men are 6'
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:25:20 JST Special Guest Star

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     that’s great until you meet up, isn’t it
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     DMA (dma@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:27:48 JST DMA

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     @s2208 @redneonglow @Barbecued_Lemons Well never used a dating app. I met hubby old fashion way. Friends introduced us. Everyone knew each other. Family had to approve.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 12:27:48 JST Special Guest Star

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     it sounds like a dream