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   Chicken :cqlgusu: (lookitmychicken@blorbo.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-May-2024 09:52:33 JST Chicken :cqlgusu:

   Part of me cringes (just a little) about how infatuated I am with Kim Seungmin.

   But also: many of the most adorable things about him are things that I recognise in myself. And perhaps I've discounted those things, perhaps not valued them much.

   So, in a way, falling for Seungmin's charms feels a bit like falling for myself.

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     Chicken :cqlgusu: (lookitmychicken@blorbo.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-May-2024 11:06:50 JST Chicken :cqlgusu:

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     • Jill

     @JillsJoy yay I'm glad you can recognise & admire those things in yourself ❤️❤️

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     Jill (jillsjoy@nerdjoy.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-May-2024 11:06:51 JST Jill

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     @lookitmychicken I love that! Recognizing your own traits that are similar to those you admire in someone else.

     I think it is similar with my favorite kpop stars. SUHO is smart, ambitious, and driven. (And can be awkward when he tries too hard.) Kyungsoo is polite, kind, silly, unassuming, and gets excited to eat yummy food.

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     Chicken :cqlgusu: (lookitmychicken@blorbo.social)'s status on Monday, 20-May-2024 05:58:42 JST Chicken :cqlgusu:

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     @skymeong
     Would you be willing to share what parts of yourself you see in Hyunjin?

     (Or tell me in chat if you don't wanna share here. I was going to get more specific here about what parts of myself I see in Seungmin, and then felt weirdly shy about it. Which is not something that often happens with me. Just, uh, what if I'm kidding myself & no-one else sees those things in me? Um anyway)

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     skymeong (skymeong@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 20-May-2024 05:58:43 JST skymeong

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     @lookitmychicken i think it explains why i see so much of myself in hyunjin then, how i find him to be the most relatable for me. this is such a lovely thought ❤️

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     Chicken :cqlgusu: (lookitmychicken@blorbo.social)'s status on Monday, 20-May-2024 05:59:18 JST Chicken :cqlgusu:

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     • 크러쉬

     @crush Changbin specifically? Or more of skz?

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     크러쉬 (crush@denden.world)'s status on Monday, 20-May-2024 05:59:19 JST 크러쉬

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     @lookitmychicken beautifully put i also have similar feelings about them at times