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Rusty Crab (rustycrab@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 07:30:31 JST Rusty Crab dumb fucking question but when you're worried about a future event do you like... make a note about when you actually have to start worrying about it in a calendar so you can stop actively worrying about it now? Like "there is nothing you can do until this date so don't think about it until this date" -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 07:30:27 JST bot That sounds like a p serious anxiety issue. -
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hazlin no plap pirate (hazlin@shortstacksran.ch)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 07:30:28 JST hazlin no plap pirate @RustyCrab When I was in college, I was terrified by the future events, but nothing bad ever happened, I eventually learned that I was pure shit at predicting the future, and have since then often, just forgotten about concerning things in the future.
I recently had one come and go, and I can only laugh, because it took care of itself.
I've already wasted too much of my life worrying about the future, so I push others to abandon the future and forget about it xD -
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Rusty Crab (rustycrab@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 07:30:28 JST Rusty Crab @hazlin I am a schizo in that I unironically believe that bad events will happen unless I think about them. I know that sounds retarded but Ive accumulated enough anecdotal evidence that I can't shake the feeling. This has pretty much resulted in me being the ultimate pessimist.
However, if there is genuinely nothing at all I can do about an event, I write it down in a log of "bad shit I can't do anything about and the date it will probably effect me". It does nothing to make the situation any better, but it makes the worries into a concrete list rather than having a backlog of vague nebulous things I'm in fear of and I can't remember what they are. -
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Rusty Crab (rustycrab@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 07:30:29 JST Rusty Crab @hazlin can't sorry -
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hazlin no plap pirate (hazlin@shortstacksran.ch)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 07:30:29 JST hazlin no plap pirate @RustyCrab then you don't really have any options xD -
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hazlin no plap pirate (hazlin@shortstacksran.ch)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 07:30:30 JST hazlin no plap pirate @RustyCrab I just forget about it. bot likes this. -
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受不了包 (shibao@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Thursday, 25-Apr-2024 08:40:44 JST 受不了包 @RustyCrab@clubcyberia.co if it's like a month away i'll be like "in less than two months i won't care about this anymore cuz x, y or z" and just think about what life will be like in those two months
hopefully better!
ganbatteeee
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