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   Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Friday, 19-Apr-2024 18:43:54 JST Sick Sun

   • on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ
   @lain worrying that someone more attractive is going to steal them
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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Friday, 19-Apr-2024 18:48:12 JST kaia

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     • on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ
     @sun @lain
     I like that other girls stare at the bf, but I know part of the psychological reason why he seems like a good potential bf is because he's with me, so I don't get jealous.
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Friday, 19-Apr-2024 18:50:27 JST Sick Sun

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     • on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ
     @kaia @lain this is more about self being unattractive and fearing that they'll realize they can do better (with regards to looks)
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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Friday, 19-Apr-2024 18:55:34 JST kaia

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     • on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ
     @sun @lain
     thankfully for you, looks is only one component of male status and you can change more about your status than women can :ChenShrug:
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Friday, 19-Apr-2024 18:58:13 JST Sick Sun

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     • on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ
     @kaia @lain I detect that when I meet a woman for the first time my brain evaluates their attractiveness. But I also noticed that when I become friends, after a short while normal affection kicks in and appearance becomes a complete non-factor. I think this is one reason why it is better to start a relationship as friends rather than immediate sexual attraction.
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     التنينوكس (dragnucs@social.touha.me)'s status on Friday, 19-Apr-2024 19:41:07 JST التنينوكس

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     • on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ

     @sun @lain that is nothing to worry about. One you get past actractivness barrier, you get hooked by other things.

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