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   Bæ Grylls (theauracle@queer.party)'s status on Saturday, 20-Jan-2024 23:40:41 JST Bæ Grylls

   For the record, I apologise for absolutely nothing I said last night.

   I meant every word and some of them have been a long time coming.

   If that offends you, I don’t care. If me hitting some home truths upsets you, I don’t care. If me simply touching on how your behaviour is akin to cowardice, I don’t care. If me highlighting the fact that you’re using my traumatic past to further a fucking audience online at my expense angers you, I don’t fucking care.

   I’m a human being, goddammit. You don’t get to grandstand as some paragon of virtue when you move like a vengeful renegade.

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     Bæ Grylls (theauracle@queer.party)'s status on Saturday, 20-Jan-2024 23:45:13 JST Bæ Grylls

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     I play with a different toolset now but one thing remains the same: I don’t care how the truth makes you feel. If anything, the truth is not a weapon. It is a mirror and it’s no one else’s fault that you’ve been lying to yourself when you look at your own reflection.

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     Bæ Grylls (theauracle@queer.party)'s status on Saturday, 20-Jan-2024 23:50:22 JST Bæ Grylls

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     Things are going to be different around here.

     It starts with me. The rest falls into place fairly easily because it seems when I make a change or show vulnerability regarding my struggle, that’s when people I thought better of show me who they really are.

     And the wild part? It’s not about them. It actually is about me and the shit I didn’t ask for that I have to deal with.

     No more. Either be real, be brave, or be gone.