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Oh for sure. In spaces where people don’t already know me from my open source stuff, I keep my transition pretty need-to-know. I’ll never be able to stealth because you can pretty easily google me and like some of the top results are about me coming out. I’ve been subjected to a lot more online hate and harassment. But also, if I did just transition quietly then I wouldn’t have made as many awesome Fedi connections and I hear from folks that my posts help them understand trans folks