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   kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 03:06:07 JST kaia
   what bugs me about many fedi profiles is the sexualization, giving sexual orientation, preferences and fetishes. it's stuff people won't even disclose on dating apps without a previous conversation. it's inappropriate to put it public.
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     disarray (disarray@fedi.layer02.net)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 03:16:01 JST disarray

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     @kaia agreed.
     
     this network has always had a problem of it being overly sexualized.
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     narcolepsy and alcoholism :flag: (hj@shigusegubu.club)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 03:16:54 JST narcolepsy and alcoholism :flag:

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     @kaia https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWMPVn1kgIQ
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     feld (feld@bikeshed.party)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 03:23:44 JST feld

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     @kaia "lewd on main" smh
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     Top of the hop (on Mumble) (emoisdeadandsoami@mastodon.bv.linksjugend-solid.de)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 04:30:10 JST Top of the hop (on Mumble)

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     @kaia I mean I understand why some people put their same- (or both) sex attraction in there if they really vibe with subcultures affiliated with those, but what really bugs me is that on some Mastodon bubbles people will put so many CW on the most minisclue things that you don't take them seriously and basically expand posts motorically, until you see some extremely fetishistic, exhibitionist stuff under very abstract CW's like "lewd" or something

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     :blobcathug: (jain@blob.cat)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 04:34:52 JST :blobcathug:

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     @kaia nah i dont think so... Actually there are dating platforms which have even more informations than fedi
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     p (p@raru.re)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 04:38:22 JST p

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     I'm not a prude, quite the opposite, but I'm not an exhibitionist. I think it's a form of advertising to find equally perverted (broken?) people. Generalisation obviously
     @kaia

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     taylor (nik@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 04:39:23 JST taylor

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     @kaia@brotka.st I feel like I only ever see that for explicitly NSFW accounts where all people talk about is that kinda stuff, which I dunno feels like using fedi in the same way that a lot of people use NSFW reddit for. not my cup of tea but I don't think it's something that straight up doesn't belong on fedi.

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     :blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans: (allison@hidamari.apartments)'s status on Saturday, 23-Dec-2023 04:58:39 JST :blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans: :blobancap: :blobcattrans:

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     @kaia Thus why I'm not horny on the internet (or really anywhere else if I can help it)