I saw a little of this at Shul yesterday. At kiddush a guy in his 70s who sometimes wears a "Thank You IDF" tshirt around town was trying to make the case that all Gazans are not on the hook for Hamas' actions and the death toll is getting too high to ignore (my words not his but that's the sentiment).
Another "younger" guy maybe late 40s early 50s took an opposite position but that soft middle is showing.