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   Nudeln Al Dente (nudelnaldente@mstdn.social)'s status on Wednesday, 13-Dec-2023 19:55:56 JST Nudeln Al Dente

   • Bethany Black

   @BethanyBlack Also, there's a strong requirement to buy heartfelt gifts for everyone but equally strong discouragement to just ask them what they'd like because that would ruin the surprise (I can't put into words how much I hate surprises & the stress that goes along with both giving & receiving them).

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     Nudeln Al Dente (nudelnaldente@mstdn.social)'s status on Wednesday, 13-Dec-2023 19:55:55 JST Nudeln Al Dente

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     • Bethany Black

     @BethanyBlack But if people do ask, I then need to think up multiple options for heartfelt gifts for me (more stress) but apparently just telling people to buy me book vouchers that I will *really enjoy* isn't right because vouchers don't have the required amount of thought put into them. 🤯

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     Bethany Black (bethanyblack@mastodon.social)'s status on Thursday, 14-Dec-2023 00:09:48 JST Bethany Black

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     @NudelnAlDente yep, all of this. All of it. “Your wish list doesn’t have anything I’d want to buy you” is another