Where you have patriarchy, you will have abusive, shitty men in power. Full stop.
But yet, patriarchy's still not a huge priority in many men's minds.
And feminism? It still makes plenty of men squirm to even hear the word.
Many people have been telling you for literally centuries about these connections. Now it is essential: unless and until we ALL ditch patriarchy, we'll continue to have to continuously battle the Trumps of the world. Your choice, guys.