If I could get dudebros to understand one thing, it's that toxic masculinity doesn't prevent you from making emotional decisions. It's like how the English used to consider swimming a waste of time even for sailors, and all that did was pretty much guarantee that anyone who fell overboard would drown immediately. If you spend your life denying your emotions, your emotions will still affect you, you'll just have no skills to manage or cope with them. Imo this is why dudebros rage out so easily.