If something falls into a black hole the radial gradient in gravitational field means it gets "spaghettified". And yes, that's a real term used in astrophysics. For example, if you fall in feet first your feet will be pulled more than your knees, which will be pulled more than your hips, and so on. The effect increases as you fall, until your very atoms are strung out in a thread.
HOWEVER, if you drop a piece of spaghetti at an exact tangent to the event horizon it gets lasagnefied.