sometimes someone dms me something and i don't respond to it because im really busy at the time, and then i forget for several days, and when i remember im like "oh god i gotta reply to this," but then im like "okay but i can respond in a second bc putting it off a bit longer won't mean anything," and so then i put it off a LOT longer because it's been so long already that it would be awkward to reply, and so i just go completely silent on the person, even though they deserve a reply, because im trapped in a maze of my own construction. i think i should be flogged when i do this