Think about what a strong bond you would share with your wife by the time she is 18 if you had met her when she was 9 and gave her 300 orgasms every year. All that dopamine during her most impressionable years was meant for her to fall deeply in love with you so that she wouldn't drop you the moment you stop being a good provider. All those steamy nights with her were meant for you to fall deeply in love with her so that you would love her after her beauty fades.
All taken away from you.