I am once again saying that I think being stuck on kolektiva is going to leave me stuck federated with the racists as we gradually move, falteringly and with conflict, to a place of safety and accountability on fedi, and I am still taking suggestions for servers I might have a better time on. the server would have to:
center trans women
center dykes
center disabled people
center Black people
center PoC
center survivors, esp csa survivors
center people in the "global south" (imperial periphery)
be against government
be against capital
be against ecocide
be against tyranny
be against slavery
not be weird and prudish about sex and nudity
be up for conflict and active moderation
be hostile to reply guys
encrypt its backups AT REST (jfc kolektiva)
have an onion site
be hostile to police cooperation, not keep logs, not hand data to feds
ideally, have a canary
this shouldn't be a big ask. I know it is right now, though, and that's why inertia has me stuck here on this sinking ship