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   ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:32 JST ssorayaa
   I'm never going to try having friends ever again. Clearly friendship is nothing but pain.
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     翠星石 (suiseiseki@freesoftwareextremist.com)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:22 JST 翠星石

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     @ssorayaa I see how givenup is used by windows and discord, so you're probably correct that you're likely to get abandoned.
     
     True friendship doesn't give only pain, but of course true friendship is extremely difficult to get and is sometimes impossible to achieve in certain situations.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:23 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa ok be back in a while chat at me then if you want
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:23 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup Why? So you can lure me in then abandon me?
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:24 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa ok, if you can't keep friends, and the only common denominator is you, it might be time to examine yourself :o but who knows, i gotta run errands
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:24 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup I've examined myself plenty. And the truth is that my very nature makes it impossible for me to have lasting friendships or relationships at all. So I'm going to stop doing those things. It's not worth the heartbreak.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:25 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa "if i'm making stuff up, then how come this thing you couldn't possibly know whether is true or not?" lol
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:25 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup I swear on my life to you that friends don't stay in my life.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:26 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa why are you telling me to ask people i dunno about someone i don't know
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:26 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup If I'm making all this up then why am I not still friends with friends I've previously had?
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:27 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa i don't buy it, you just want attention, and wallowing in misery.
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:27 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup Go ask everyone. They can verify that Bloomfer just up and left and this is what happens to all friendships.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:28 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa i dunno, i live with my grandpa taking care of him in his final days, and gardening, not exactly normal, but i got a relatively normal outlook on life.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:28 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa maybe you just get low quality friends from the start did you consider?
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:28 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup Then that would mean every friend I’ve ever had is “low quality.” If there is a “normal” then that would be far from it. I’m done having friends, there’s no point in having them if you can’t keep them

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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:29 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa not really, you just gotta start, but most people who say "it's too late for me to have a normal life" are generally just wallowing in that feeling and not actually seeking it.
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:29 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup Bloomfer apparently cut ties with everybody and abandoned me. I just had another friend said he will one day also cut ties with everybody. Why make friends if they're just going to disappear? I don't think friendships or "normal lives" actually exist.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:30 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa too late for what?
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:30 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup For me to have a normal life
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:31 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup How am I wrong tho
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:31 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa your life experiences aren't the average experience.
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     ssorayaa (ssorayaa@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:31 JST ssorayaa

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     @givenup wtf is that supposed to mean? If that's true then it's already too late for me
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Aug-2023 01:06:32 JST givenup

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     @ssorayaa ok, mopey mcgee, hope you get better some day.