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   G-Nitro (gnitro@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 05:01:10 JST G-Nitro

   Went to a rum festival to meet up with my dad and stepmom... they had something else going on first, so I ended up there early without them.. Well I quickly found myself standing around just processing everything, and since I was around nothing but strangers... it kicked off something fierce.

   Next thing you know I'm in the car heading home in flight mode. My stepmom was asking why I had the attack, but hasn't responded since I gave my answer.

   So now I'm having anxiety awaiting her giving some judgment instead of understanding at some point...

   ugh

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     Tyler (robustjumprope@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 05:21:21 JST Tyler

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     @gnitro I’ve had experiences like this too. It’s very hard for people who don’t have anxiety to understand how a person with anxiety feels. And I get that, but that doesn’t make it okay to treat people poorly because of it.

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     G-Nitro (gnitro@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 05:32:32 JST G-Nitro

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     • Tyler

     @robustjumprope Well it may have just been my overthinking, cuz she called and was understanding. My mind never stops thinking, so if someone isn't responding I will assume they're upset lol

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     Tyler (robustjumprope@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 05:38:50 JST Tyler

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     @gnitro Same! I always overthink literally everything lol

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     G-Nitro (gnitro@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 06:03:31 JST G-Nitro

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     • My Little Ponfarr

     @BongoMcnulty Thanks, all is good now. Came home and cuddled my dog for awhile in silence... And she didn't judge me. We chatted not long after my post. ^^

     Thanks! :HugGimme:

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     My Little Ponfarr (bongomcnulty@mstdn.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 06:03:32 JST My Little Ponfarr

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     @gnitro I can't even pretend to understand how this feels, but I hope everything gets better for you soon. There's no way that your parents will be judging you, and I doubt they'll want you to explain anything, especially if you don't want to.

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     G-Nitro (gnitro@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 06:43:25 JST G-Nitro

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     • Elisse

     @elisse Thanks it was a rough one, and I was glad she was too. :RamHug:

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     Elisse (elisse@mas.to)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 06:43:26 JST Elisse

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     @gnitro So glad she ended up being understanding in the end, and that you are safe. :blobhug2:

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     MDMRN (mdmrn@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 11:16:39 JST MDMRN

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     @gnitro Anxiety sucks. Sorry for what you dealt with. Glad your Step-Mom understood more after you talked to her.

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     G-Nitro (gnitro@urusai.social)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 11:22:01 JST G-Nitro

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     @mdmrn Thanks, it was definitely a rough afternoon