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   Chris L-W👻🚫 (chrislw@podcastindex.social)'s status on Sunday, 13-Aug-2023 06:42:58 JST Chris L-W👻🚫

   I decided to jump on the free version of a dating site. I filled out my profile completely and was almost happy to see I have received 70+ likes in a week.

   Issue - NONE of these people are actually LOOKING at my profile because the first line in the profile basically says "I can't see likes because I'm on the free version, message me instead"

   So they liked based on % profile question match without even bothering to learn about me.

   Guess I'll only be logging in once a week unless I get a DM.

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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Sunday, 13-Aug-2023 06:43:36 JST kaia

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     @chrislw I wonder whether those are real likes or something scammy going on.
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     Chris L-W👻🚫 (chrislw@podcastindex.social)'s status on Sunday, 13-Aug-2023 06:43:48 JST Chris L-W👻🚫

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     I'll just note, I'd prefer to organically meet someone IRL. I am going to different events, and also just doing stuff to make myself happy.

     The problem is, there really aren't any IRL social connections I have to connect with people. No friends of friends that would be available, I don't go to church, etc.

     This isn't me being an incel, fuck that, I'm gonna live my life regardless. It is just a sad state of social affairs really.

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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Sunday, 13-Aug-2023 06:44:39 JST kaia

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     @chrislw
     I always recommend to volunteer or join a club.
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