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   Rachel, Femme Doux Naturel (ykantrachelread@kolektiva.social)'s status on Monday, 31-Jul-2023 10:18:57 JST Rachel, Femme Doux Naturel

   it's not transmisogynist to expect transfem people to own up to bigoted statements and try to do better in the future.

   it *is* transmisogynist to make specific transfem people out to be such irredeemable boogeymen that anyone who associates with them is irrevocably tainted by proximity.

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     Rachel, Femme Doux Naturel (ykantrachelread@kolektiva.social)'s status on Monday, 31-Jul-2023 10:19:10 JST Rachel, Femme Doux Naturel

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     point of clarification: the above does not apply if said transfem is a proven fash, abuser or sex pest.

     clarification on that clarification: no, "is immature/has an edgelord problem" does not equal "fash."

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     Masonic Cowgirl (julieofthespirits@kolektiva.social)'s status on Monday, 31-Jul-2023 10:19:29 JST Masonic Cowgirl

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     • AutumnMeowMeow

     @AutumnMeowMeow @YKantRachelRead I mean in theory that's what instance blocks are supposed to be for, but instead it turns into more drama where people block you for not blocking the same instances as you

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     Masonic Cowgirl (julieofthespirits@kolektiva.social)'s status on Monday, 31-Jul-2023 10:19:30 JST Masonic Cowgirl

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     @YKantRachelRead it's also more than reasonable to keep lists in your head of people that you don't like, that you think are problematic, etc., and not want to associate with people who associate with certain people. I do the same thing IRL! We all have freedom of association. I also don't force my shitlists onto my IRL friends though because that would be wild

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     AutumnMeowMeow (autumnmeowmeow@silverheart.social)'s status on Monday, 31-Jul-2023 10:19:30 JST AutumnMeowMeow

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     • Masonic Cowgirl

     @julieofthespirits @YKantRachelRead I feel like we just need a proper chain block for Fediverse: "block this user, and/or moots/followers". I'm surprised such a tool isn't widely available, or if it is out there that it isn't widely known about.

     Then all the people who either personally or whose cliques don't get along can all just block and move on. Instead of repeating the same conflicts over and over.

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