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   ringo (ringo@talk-here.com)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:03:31 JST ringo
   its weird seeing that some catholic girls match me on the dating site.
   
   you'd probably not want to talk to me anymore after about half an hour of discussing religion.
   
   ah well.
   
   "you've missed a match!" find out who, uh i know who i just looked at the profile and it said catholic. heh.
   
   silly internet.
   
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   in other news, hi. :A_BlobCat_BounceFast:
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:03:30 JST victor

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     @ringo Best of luck, most girls on dating sites are in pretty rough shape overall (and guys too probably), get ready to make compromises on things you didn't think you'd compromise on if you want to actually match with someone.
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:23:19 JST victor

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     @ringo
     
     Putting myself in the shoes of someone who is 40ish
     
     From left to right, top row then bottom
     
     1- might clean up decently
     2- meh, just...I dunno, I wish the best for her
     3- disgusting, zoomed in so fat
     4- seems kinda witchy
     5- gross
     6- used up, get ready for endless fights
     7- kind of a soulless stare, she's looking for a guy who doesn't exist
     8- whore
     9- (assuming it's the dyed blonde) pretty but probably too good for everyone, also likely a whore
     10- seems maybe alright but the tattoos are very offputting
     11- generic (in a good way), probably nice
     12- generic (not in a good way)
     
     If I were forced to choose one from that list to marry based on the picture alone, no questions asked, I'd probably go with 11.
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     ringo (ringo@talk-here.com)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:23:22 JST ringo

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     • victor
     @victor
     
     i've noticed.
     
     
     the 'online' section is typically terrifying.
     
     a boulevard of demonic posession and broken dreams.
     
     and thank you.
     i did find one gal on there who i was talking with, but then i wasn't sure if she was writing the emails or if chat gpt was, and she gave me a # but it didnt let me leave a voicemail,just went to a busy signal.. no idea..
     
     compromises ? not many, im patient, ive been single for years now.
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:33:35 JST victor

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     @ringo Well...That's probably one of the compromises you're going to have to make. She probably also uses an iPhone and has the Facebook and Twitter apps installed and doesn't know anything about tracking or spying (or worse, doesn't care because "she has nothing to hide").
     
     "I use it to keep in touch with my family"
     
     "I know Facebook is bad but all my friends are there"
     
     "Twitter lets me get updates on things really quickly"
     
     "I love my phone, I'd be lost without it"
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     ringo (ringo@talk-here.com)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:33:38 JST ringo

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     • victor
     @victor
     
     there's not a single person in that blurb that i'd actually want to talk to.
     
     thats usually how it goes when i load the thing. it's just.... yeah. what it is.
     
     
     then im reminded that when i do find someone that doesnt' look like they're a witch, satanist, thirst trap, hooker, or otherwise, the odds are that they have a normal mind and do stuff like use toxic personal care products, eat crappy food, don't know the govt hates everyone, etc - you get where im going with this.
     
     but at the same time, some things can be learned, but most people are not brave enough to even change the soap they use, so.
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:58:34 JST victor

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     @ringo I hate to say it, but the best you can reasonably hope for is a woman who is probably divorced but who turned down the vaccine and who reposts right-wing memes on Facebook on her phone. Even that would be quite a find on an e-dating site.
     
     But hey, miracles can and do happen, and there's always the guy who find the woman of his dreams against all odds.
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     ringo (ringo@talk-here.com)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 11:58:37 JST ringo

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     • victor
     @victor
     
     no.
     
     lol.
     
     =]
     
     :A_BlobCat_Box:
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     ringo (ringo@talk-here.com)'s status on Monday, 26-Jun-2023 12:00:09 JST ringo

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     • victor
     @victor
     
     who knows, but YHVH.
     
     if it's meant to be, the entire thing is in his hands.
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