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   kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2023 07:38:49 JST kaia
   getting girlsplained by someone I read as bi woman why gaydar does not exist. she's bi btw.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2023 07:39:43 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Most gay men are very easy to spot.
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     mdn (mangeurdenuage@shitposter.club)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2023 07:42:34 JST mdn

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     >why gaydar does not exist
     She should explain this then.
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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2023 07:46:00 JST kaia

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     gaydar is the ability to spot LGBTIQ folks by their behavior.
     
     girlsplaining is a woman explaining something smugly with assumed authority. mensplaining is the more commonly used male variant.
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     Insane :birdsite: (absurdlyinsane@ohai.social)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2023 07:46:09 JST Insane :birdsite:

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     @kaia What is girlsplaining and gaydar?

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     your new favourite fungus (duponin@udongein.xyz)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2023 07:48:03 JST your new favourite fungus

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     @kaia and that suddenly becomes one of your priorities
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     kolya (kolya@social.cologne)'s status on Sunday, 25-Jun-2023 15:09:39 JST kolya

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     @kaia people use fashion, hairstyles, makeup etc to express themselves. Gaydar is just reading these symbols correctly. It's communication. What's there to deny?

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