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My grandmother told my mom that she feels sorry for me because my mom is my mom.
Then my grandmother wonders why I don't want to go around her.
It's a big ol' question.
Just had to get that off my chest.
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One of my grandmother's once said "why is she with him, he's short?!" Referring to my wife and I. Thanks, grandma. 😒
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@PodunkPotato I'll put it this way, she treats my cousin's, cousin's bf/gfs and my cousin's children, better than me.
With her, I am at the bottom of the totem pole of the family, the scapegoat.
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How old are you? Please, ffs, do not answer. I say this for you to have a time perspective, not me.
But 1, family hierarchies change with time, drastically.
and 2 Who cares if you still do have civility. Keep it. Better in the long run. Go to less events in the mean if you need to.
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I would not fret, sounds like an issue between them, not you.
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@PodunkPotato Yeah, she treats my mom like shit. But somehow, I always get dragged into it.
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Does she treat you such? Don't visit together. Drop a flower basket and take off.
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You still are, nigbot. You still are.
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we wuz??? :animu_smug8:
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@Humpleupagus @PodunkPotato Grandmas just don't give a shit, it seems. That's was really rude.
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My other grandma was great actually, but she was a lady.
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@Humpleupagus @PodunkPotato Well, that's good.
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The most important thing to remember is that sometimes you will have a family member who deserves to be treated no different than a stranger. Abusive people rely on bonds to continue the abuse. Sometimes cutting ties in some form is best.
If you're getting dragged in through your mother, and you have good a relationship with her, you could just say that you're not getting involved because of how it affects you. Grandma will be dead soon anyway, and a lot of things change when matriarchs pass.
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@Humpleupagus @PodunkPotato @Redpotato Your still a king to me humps no matter how tall
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hamster ass niggas... :sneep:
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Isn't that the name of the porn you were in, nigbot? 😏
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Not the point though. She was trying to well.
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@PodunkPotato @Jean_Philippe_Micheaux @Humpleupagus I guess we also have to remember that they grew up in a time where you could call your loved ones fat and ugly, and they would still have to respect you.
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This was a woman, trying to help.
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@PodunkPotato @Redpotato @Humpleupagus As again she was doing what she thought was right. And I did gain a few with that lame foot.
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@Jean_Philippe_Micheaux @Humpleupagus @PodunkPotato Wtf 😭
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@Redpotato @Humpleupagus @PodunkPotato Her brother died of some complications of diabetes so whenever people started getting fat around her she would start shaming lol
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@Jean_Philippe_Micheaux @Humpleupagus @PodunkPotato Yeah, but you're not going to get diabetes from gaining a couple pounds from a broken foot.
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@Humpleupagus @PodunkPotato @Redpotato My grandma told me I was gonna need insulin soon when I gained weight after I broke my foot in high school