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   Starsstorm ? (starsstorm@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:36 JST Starsstorm ?

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   @LisbonMuse My daughter’s been getting teased at school for not being appropriately girl enough a bit here and there by other girls and I said to my therapist something about how we were bit confused how to talk to her about this because we don’t consider activities male or female aside from child bearing. She replied and I don’t remember the exact wording, but the gist is that she didn’t believe children understand sex and gender differences and she kind of slid in there that she didn’t believe they could transition either as like a reassurance that it’s perfectly fine for my dancer daughter to also be somewhat masculine (which I knew but it was also nice to hear).
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     Starsstorm ? (starsstorm@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:37 JST Starsstorm ?

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     @LisbonMuse God that’s awful. That makes me feel absolutely awful for new mothers.
     
     So glad I stopped doing most mom groups when I was pregnant with my third and fourth, I’d have outed myself as a terf by posting basic child development papers.
     
     Although this reminds me that I recently found out my therapist is a terf by accident.
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     LisbonMuse (lisbonmuse@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:37 JST LisbonMuse

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     @starsstorm Luckily it's only been online ones, not IRL ones. So I stopped going on online ones, especially cause I did out myself and got in an argument against it.
     
     Oh do tell? That's awesome!
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     Starsstorm ? (starsstorm@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:38 JST Starsstorm ?

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     @LisbonMuse Gross. Babies can’t be queer.
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     LisbonMuse (lisbonmuse@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:38 JST LisbonMuse

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     @starsstorm I think it's fake actually....thankfully 😅
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     Starsstorm ? (starsstorm@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:38 JST Starsstorm ?

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     @LisbonMuse What does it say about this world that we can’t tell that it isn’t?
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     LisbonMuse (lisbonmuse@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:38 JST LisbonMuse

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     @starsstorm Agree completely. I thought maybe it was a second book to that other one...you should see some of the moms on my mom's groups. "I'm not using gendered pronouns until THEY'RE old enough to decide" - or "my boy hasn't *been falling into gender stereotypes* is he trans?"
     
     Like real posts, for babies!
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     LisbonMuse (lisbonmuse@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 27-Apr-2023 05:45:39 JST LisbonMuse
     Is this real? Lol. It looks like the same makers of "anti-racist" baby. I know this because someone got me that book when I was pregnant, and I burned it. Lol