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   Kit Rhett Aultman (roadriverrail@signs.codes)'s status on Saturday, 08-Apr-2023 05:44:37 JST Kit Rhett Aultman

   So, #nonbinary problems, seeing answers. I'm officially at the point in my transition that, when I properly put on a femme presentation, using the men's bathroom either confuses the men who come in or causes them to "helpfully correct" my "mistake" of "walking into the wrong room". This isn't so bad, but makes me feel like I'm marked. On the other hand, I'm genuinely afraid of going into the women's bathroom and making someone uncomfortable or being one of those "trans invaders". What do?

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     Kit Rhett Aultman (roadriverrail@signs.codes)'s status on Saturday, 08-Apr-2023 07:56:50 JST Kit Rhett Aultman

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     • Tattie

     @Tattie Yep, done that a fair bit too.

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     Tattie (tattie@mastodon.scot)'s status on Saturday, 08-Apr-2023 07:56:51 JST Tattie

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     @roadriverrail I tend to use the disabled loo when I have to. Don't like to, but it's a safety issue.