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   Luna ??? //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:02:26 JST Luna ??? //nullptr::live

   • かき@GNUsocialJP

   So in Denmark when you start HRT you are more or less required to put sperm in a sperm bank.

   The probability that I’ll get a cis girlfriend within the next 4 years are pretty low due to being a demi lesbian who’s bad at making friends lol

   So question is, what the heck do I do with it? Like is there a way to donate it to someone who might need it (eg. Due to infertility of their partner or something)

   I really don’t see any use myself for it

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     Luna ??? //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:02:26 JST Luna ??? //nullptr::live

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     And it would be a shame for it to go to waste if someone else could get any use out of it…

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     Lexi of the Night (lexi@cailincat.cloud)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:02:26 JST Lexi of the Night

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     @LunaFoxgirlVT I don't know, there seem to be many lesbian organizations that are very keen on getting (anonymous/zero-knowledge) donors, maybe they can help

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     Luna ??? //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:02:27 JST Luna ??? //nullptr::live

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     • Lexi of the Night

     @lexi I don’t think that’s feasible with how my sperm was put in the bank, it can only be used for open IVF afaik?

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     Luna ??? //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:02:27 JST Luna ??? //nullptr::live

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     • Lexi of the Night

     @lexi additionally I don’t think I’d be comfy about an anonymous donation, I think i would end up worry whether the child I’ve ended up helping put in to this world is doing well and is being treated well by the parents

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     Luna ??? //nullptr::live (lunafoxgirlvt@vt.social)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:02:59 JST Luna ??? //nullptr::live

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     • かき@GNUsocialJP

     @kaia I don’t know either, more specifically it’s 8 years if you ask for an extension (I started HRT in 2019, so this October I’ll have to request the extension)

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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:03:00 JST kaia

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     @LunaFoxgirlVT why do they only keep it for 4 years, but force you to donate? that seems weird.
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     clacke (clacke@libranet.de)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 21:04:52 JST clacke

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     @LunaFoxgirlVT Different places are so different. I talked to a nurse about vasectomy and asked if there's an option to store some spare and she said uh that's not really something people do so it's probably difficult to find and expensive.