@fluffy Well, I don’t really see much if any “drama”, so I’m assuming we all have very different expectations and experiences; which is fine! If you believe personal pages and blogs are more of your thing, that’s fine; it may not be the case for everyone, however, I know it wouldn’t suit me personally, for example.
I’d still recommend things like WriteFreely or Plume however, WriteFreely blogs can be followed from the fediverse (but do not have comments/etc), and Plume blogs support comments via replies. There are some instances out there hosting both WriteFreely and Plume openly! I’d still recommend against using centralised services, which are as prone to closing down at any moment, but can be even worse for many reasons (inexplicable limitations on content to appease advertisers, advertisements, user tracking, not having RSS or having it disappear out of nowhere, etc.)
Mastodon handles displaying things, federating things in very different ways. The hard limit on 500 characters may lead to less thought-focused posts, which leads to “threads”, which many people don’t really like. Things you mentioned, like hiding/rejecting a person’s replies to one of your posts (or to your posts in general) is entirely dependent on the software you use, and can be done.
PS: You might like to know that Mastodon, Pleroma and many other fediverse software expose RSS feeds for users. For example, yours is https://plush.city/@fluffy.rss.