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Want to go off more about pattern mimicking / chameleon effect in human interaction. I had a guy who would come by my desk just about every day to chat, vent, shoot the shit, anything but work. Since I have a standing desk it was always an interesting game to see how, even subconsciously, the first person to set where their arms and hands were located would wind up having the other one in the same position within seconds. Crossed arms? You'll cross them without thinking. One hand by the side, one in the pocket? Before you can even think about it you'll be doing the same. Put some conscious effort into watching it the next time you have to talk to someone, and for the advanced class, try to get them to change poses as many times as possible.