Legend says that when you're overwhelmed with illness & on the edge of holding it all together, a "helpful" person will appear and tell you that you're just not trying hard enough [an old painting of a man leaning over train seat into a woman's personal space. She looks distressed] MyBodyIsTryingToKillMe.Com
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